Verses
The most common wedding invitation verses
Invitations are issued in the third person form. Traditionally,, it is sent in the name of the
bride's parents, if they are paying for majority
of the expenses. If the groom's parents are
sharing the cost, the invitation should be issued
in their name also. If the couple is hosting
their own wedding, they may choose to honor their
parents by including their names.
The traditional form of a formal wedding
invitation:
Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Palmieri
request the honour of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Abby Marie
to
Steven Joseph Keller
Saturday, the eighteenth of November
two thousand and twelve
at two o'clock in the afternoon
Guardian Angels Catholic Church
1676 South Cleveland-Massillon Road
Copley, Ohio
With the groom's parents added:
Joseph Mark
son of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Palmieri
Issued
from both sets of parents:
Mr. and Mrs.
Arthur Keller
and
Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Palmieri
request the
honour or your presence
at the marriage
of their children
Anne Marie
and
Joseph Mark
(continue)
Add
parent's without listing their name:
Together with
their parents
Anne Marie Keller
and
Joseph Mark Palmieri
request the
honour of your presence
at their
marriage
(continued)
or
Anne Marie Keller
and
Joseph Mark Palmieri
together with
their parents
(continued)
When
the bride's mother is divorced, has not
remarried, and is issuing the
invitation:
Mrs. Mary Keller
requests the
honour of your presence
at the
marriage of her daughter
(continued)
If
she has remarried:
Mr. and Mrs.
John Smith
requests the
honour of your presence
at the
marriage of her (their) daughter
(continued)
When
divorced parents host the wedding
together it is proper to list the mother
before the father. However, if the
mother is not contributing to the expenses but
the bride and groom still choose to have her
name listed the father's name would be
listed first:
Mr. and Mrs.
Arthur Keller
and
Mr. and Mrs.
Joseph Palmieri
request the
honour or your presence
at the marriage
of (their daughter)
Anne
Marie
to
Joseph Mark Palmieri
(continued)
When
the bride has a deceased parent, the
invitation is issued in only in the name of
the living parent:
Mrs. Arthur Keller
requests the
honour of your presence
at the
marriage of her daughter
(continued)
However,
there are circumstances when the bride or
groom wants to include the name of a
deceased parent. This is possible as
long as the invitation is not worded to appear
that it is issued by them:
Anne Marie
daughter
of
Mary Keller
and the late Arthur Keller
and
Joseph Mark
son
of
Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Palmieri
(continued)
Bride and groom issue their own
invitation:
The honour of
your presence
is
requested
at the
marriage of
Miss Anne Marie Keller
to
Mr. Joseph Mark Palmieri
(continued)
Less formal version:
Anne Marie Keller
and
Joseph Mark Palmieri
invite you to
share with them
the joy of
their marriage
(continued)
A relative issues the invitation:
Mr. and Mrs.
William Keller
request the
honour of your presence
at the marriage
of their niece
(continued)

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